how to give a good first impression on others 怎么给别人留下好的印象

Have you thought about your first impression on others? Do you want to have a further talk with someone who gives you a good first impression? Whether you are going for a job interview, going on a date or meeting others for the first time, the first impression always plays an important role in the process, because a good first impression will make it easy to build a relationship with others.

First of all, appearance is the most fundamental factor in the first impression. Because when you meet someone for the first time, from the beginning they will judge you from appearance not your behavior or speaking. Before a meeting, you should keep yourself clean and tidy, with clean face, neat hands, and orderly hair and so on. Do not dye your hair in odd colors, just make them natural. If necessary, female can put on a suitable makeup, making you more beautiful and charming. As for dressing, we are supposed to wear those clothes which fit well and look tidy, natural, and decent. If your first impression is impressive, to a certain degree, it means that you make it in the first step.

One’s behavior and gesture are often consistent with his deposition and character. As a result, we should attach much importance to our behavior and gesture. Try to keep your back straight when standing, do not bend down. When sitting, you should keep nature and calm, avoiding crossing or shaking your legs. Besides, we should walk with graceful and natural steps, do not jump or run on the way. On condition that you talk with others, you can keep an eye contact with others to express your sincerity. You had better not pat your hair or make hand gesture from time to time. Try to behave well.

Last but not least, your speaking has a great influence on first impression. When you have a talk with others, you will be more welcome if you talk about something that others are interested in. Be careful about your intonation and rhythm and the use of some words like courtesies to make yourself understood well. It is impolite to repeat your words and opinions again and again.

If your appearance, behavior and speaking indicate that you are friendly, easygoing, charming and so on, your first impression works and you are likely to be more welcome on many occasions , which help you communicate with others more easily. It is unavoidable that many people will judge people from the first impression, so we should pay attention to our first impression.